sunday =/= sunny day (Happy Mother's Day)

Bumped into Wilson on C4 bus two days ago...hehe...to Wilson," Thank you so much for the Hello Kitty Lip Gloss u got in NY... So surprised that u carry it around with u!!!!" ^^

The weather these two days has been really weird, one moment there is sun, the next moment it's raining, hailing with thunderstorm.

I must work harder and faster... At the moment it's too slow and I have tonnes to revise...rather, to learn for the first time.

At this inappropriate time, I am thinking much about men in general. Mean ones, horrible ones, lovely ones, sweet ones, perfect ones...

Women always say," Loads of men would be so nice to u, so enthusiatic, saying every sweet thing they can think of... just to get u laid, and once u have slept with them, their attitude changes by 180 degrees." Not that I have had such experience *wink*, but I do think it has some truth in it, since it's a piece of wisdom passed on from generation to generation. Women feel so bad perhaps not just becos the guys are irresponsible, but perhaps also the feeling of loss of attention, doubts about whether she had lost attractiveness? Simply, i guess humans (I do think it's not just women) in general likes others showing attention , affection, notice...etc. to them (as a kind of positive reinforcement). One may say," I am not an attention seeker." Fair enough, one may not be actively seeking this positive reinforcement, nevertheless, I believe one wouldn't resist it if it's there either. And then once one has it (the attention), one will get spoilt and feeling low when deprived of it.....so is the attention we are getting from others a bad thing? How not to get spoilt? How to make oneself becoming immune to the low feeling when the attention level from others is decreasing? By changing perspectives or by seeking for even more "sources" of attention? Hahaha...don't you think it's a very interesting area to contemplate on?

OK, so horrible men would do this "sleep & leave" thing, what about lovely, sweet and perfect ones??? How should they be like? I don't know how many gals would agree with me here. For me, an ideal, perfect guy should be...

TALL- i.e. 5'10 or above;
GOOD LOOKING;
MASCULINE;
SMART- i.e. studying or have had studied some really hardcore subjects at university, such as Maths, Science (physics in particular), Medicine, Law... The whole reason for this is that a perfect guy must be intellectual and must be able to cope with the harsh demands of the course.
MUSICAL- can play at least one musical instrument to advance level , I love watching a guy playing a musical instrument, piano is best!
SPORTY- good at a sport or martial arts (black belt)...anything is cool, just not too dangerous...tennis, swimming, basketball, football, kendo, taekwondo, thai boxing.
GREAT PERSONALITY- easygoing yet have principles...
KIND- Kindness is important, must show mercy and thoughtfulness in everything he undertakes.
LOYAL- isnt' that pretty obvious? Don't flirt around even he knows he's pretty perfect (ie he should be humble), little bit shy is sweet!!!
CLEAN- good personal hygiene, no bad breath!
GOOD TASTE IN EVERYTHING- a bit too much??? maybe...clothes? food? idea of comfort?
ROMANTIC and SWEET- know how to please a gal;
AMBITIOUS- has good heart which wants to do good for the world;
GOOD IN BED- haha...winkwink, not that it's a must, but Mr. PERFECT wouldnt be perfect if he's not, right?
RICH?? I don't think MR. PERFECT needs to be excessively rich, just enough to afford a comfortable, simple and healthy life, doesnt need to be luxurious, and be able raise a couple of kids properly would be great.

Hm....that's probably it....wouldnt that be great if such men really exist in this world in vast quantities??? :D
I wonder when there are many of them around, will we women become even more pickier??? I smile just by thinking of an ideal perfect man. How wonderful it must be....

WAKE UP NOW!!! DING DING...back to reality...exams coming up in 3 weeks. Stop daydreaming!